What I Won’t Be Telling My Dad
Posted on October 25, 2008
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I suppose he might find out because he used to read the WhyGoSolo blog…I’m not sure if he has found this blog or not.
At any rate, what I won’t be telling my dad or what I’m in no rush to tell him, is that on November 1st , I will no longer have a “secure” job.
My last day (for now) of wearing the Marine Corps uniform ends this Friday, October 31st. I’m in no rush to tell him because I know he’ll start worrying.
Seriously, how many people give up a good, steady paycheck during a recession!?!? You know at least one – ME.
In May (six months ago) when I took a job back in the Marine Corps – all I had going on was WhyGoSolo. We were in a stalemate and things weren’t going so well. I was burned out on it, so I wasn’t able to be innovative and think of the best next actions to take. I was also under extreme financial stress.
Once I got some new footing under me – I was able to re-engage. We launched Tickets with a Twist and Yut Media, Inc. came alive!
The problem now is that only being able to work on Tickets with a Twist, Yut Media and WhyGoSolo 2-3 hours every other day is making me extremely unhappy. It’s not enough time to get the sites off the ground.
I told my boss a while back that I wouldn’t renew my orders pass October 31st but I had initially lined up another billet for the month of November. However, that job fell through. At first, I was a wreck and I started worrying and stressing about what I would do. I got a hold of my fears and decided this was a sign.
A sign that it was time for me to give Yut Media a full time go – at least for a few weeks and see what happens.
Instead of 2-3 hours, I can give it 14-16 hours a day. I’m excited about it and I look forward to being back in the entrepreneurial life full time.
But here’s the biggest MUST DO in the next few weeks: MAKE MONEY. I’m being honest with myself…unless I can make money, I don’t have a business. These next few weeks are to test whether or not I really have a viable business.
SocialDevCamp Afterparty – Live Music and Signiture Drinks
Posted on October 18, 2008
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SocialDevCamp is back and it’s only two weeks away!! Just like last time, we have some great sessions proposed and people are coming form the Amtrak corridor to discuss the future of the social web and of our growing community.
We’re planning some additional things from the last SocialDevCamp to make the event more exciting and productive for all who will attend. One thing we want to ensure happens, besides the sharing of ideas, is some solid networking and getting to know each other.
Also, we’ve plan a very exciting afterparty!! We have booked The Metro Gallery which is a few blocks away from the University of Baltimore to bring you live entertainment.
The Show
Kicking off the after party will be Natasha El-Sergany
Natasha El-Sergany is a singer/songwriter in her second year of law school in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. She has been writing songs on the same guitar since she was fourteen. Her music layers sleepy, simple guitar riffs with lush vocals that get that under your skin. Influences include Fiona Apple, Jeff Buckley, and Nick Drake.
Followed by:
KADMAN originated as the project of David Manchester, a singer/songwriter armed with the influences of contemporary artists such as Iron & Wine, Mark Kozelek, Nick Drake and Elliot Smith. After seven years performing solo & acoustic, David joined forces with his brother Mitch, on bass and drummer Matt Smith to expand the sound of KADMAN. Influenced by the minimalist beauty of Low and the droning shoegazer elements of Yo La Tengo, the trio experiments with guitar loops and textures and continue to evolve into what is described as neo-american sadcore. Kadman now welcomes bassist James Bahleda into the mix as Kadman continues to push forward on their second studio album, due out in the fall of 2009.
And Finally:
Ra Ra Rasputin formed in the spring of 2007 and since then have been developing a unique approach to dance rock. Rather than rely on just four-on-the-floor beats and “angular” guitars, they incorporate analog synthesizers, elements of African and Latin rhythms and minimalism And while some of their work may feature flourishes of experimental music, their number one priority is having fun. Their shows in Washington DC and New York have been frantic and sweaty affairs. They are currently working on their debut EP and have a few other surprises up their sleeves.
Their influences include, but are not limited to, Roxy Music, Antena, Liquid Liquid, Orange Juice, Talking Heads, Blonde Redhead and New Order.
The Drinks
While being entertained you’ll also be able to sip on iStrategyLabs’ yummy signiture drinks!! Don’t let the picture fool you!!
Signup for the after party at Eventbrite and we’re looking for more sponsors!! Contact me if you’re interested and want to be part of putting on this awesome show.
Help me Solve The Chicken and Egg Game
Posted on October 13, 2008
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The Chicken and Egg Game is one of the most excruciating games that startup entrepreneurs have to play.
Here’s how you play it: In order to achieve A you need B but in order to get B you first need A. So what comes first, A or B? The chicken or the egg?
It’s a very common game that investors engage entrepreneurs in. Here’s how they play it: In order to get blank amount of dollars; you must achieve milestones 1-3…meanwhile, you can’t achieve milestones 1-3 without the blank amount of dollars.
So what’s my current chicken and egg game??
It goes soemthing like this…
In order to entice venues to give Tickets with a Twist free tickets to upcoming shows they want to know I have a solid foundation of members (currently around 1,000 WhyGoSolo members). However, in order to appeal to a solid foundation of members I need a nice (good size and variety) selection of tickets.
What comes first…the venues (tickets) or the members?? Venues are attracted to the members and the members are attracted to what the venues have to offer.
How am I playing the game?
I’m going after the chicken and the egg at the same time:
- I’m contacting venues and pitching them. I’m also reaching out to the actual entertainers and promoters for the venues who can also make things happen.
- I’m working to rally members. I started the Facebook Group – We Only Go Out for Free to raise awareness about Tickets with a Twist and WhyGoSolo. Say we had 5,000 members in DC. That would make for a very appealing crowd to the DC venues…
- I’m pulling my resources. I’m figuring out who knows who in the right communities to reach decision makers. I’ve bought quite a few people lunch this past week

- I’m letting people know. I have the mission to aggressively let people know about Tickets with a Twist and the many win, Win, WIN situations it creates for venues, entertainers and people who love going out. I’ll continue to blog, engage others to blog, I’ve made videos, a squidoo lens, posted on Craigslist and will be attending many upcoming networking events and meetups to talk about Tickets with a Twist and hand out information. I’m also planning some other things through Yut Media, Inc.
I’m sharing this because if you’ve ever played the Chicken and Egg Game you know this is an extremely challenging game that drives you crazy and keeps you going in circles.
Am I nuts to blog about being in a Chicken and Egg Game…possibly, but people can’t help if they don’t know what’s going on!!
Ready to Hire a Coach
Posted on October 4, 2008
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I’m on the search for a good coach. I’m looking for a coach who specializes in working with entrepreneurs. Entrepreneurs…not looking for a small business coach.
The last few weeks I’ve noticed just how extremely lonely I’ve been. Not the “I need a boyfriend” lonely. But rather, lonely in the sense that there is no one right now in my life with whom to share what I’m going through in order to get support and assistance.
That’s the only pitfall to not having a business partner…you find yourself all alone. Having a coach, will mean having someone who will listen to me once a week to talk through what I’m trying to accomplish, where I’m blocked, what struggles I’m wrestling through and what victories I’ve achieved.
I have a quasi support system, but I need a dedicated support system in place from someone who will intimately get to know my strengths and weaknesses, needs, desires and wants. Someone who, for an hour a week, will be solely focus on being there for me to assist me get to where I want to go.
Doesn’t hurt that I’ve been trained as a coach. I know the power of coaching and I’m ready to invest in it and put it to work for me.
If you’re reading this and you’re a coach or you know of an excellent coach – please have them contact me.
Again, I want a coach who works with entrepreneurs. Someone who understands the characteristics, needs and traits of entrepreneurs since that’s a good baseline to start understanding who I am and how I operate.
Going to a Conference? A Lesson in Preparedness
Posted on September 23, 2008
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It was my first time to BlogWorld Expo. I didn’t fully know what to expect, but as an entrepreneur I don’t have time or the money to attend a conference for the sake of “just checking it out”. I have to maximize everything I do. I didn’t necessarily do that at this conference, but I did learn how to better prepare for the next conferences I attend.
Set Your Objectives Before Arriving
Make a list of your top three objectives for attending the conference. Once you’ve set your objectives engage in making a plan to meet each of those objectives. You’ll want to allow some room for flexibility but you should hit the ground ready to meet your objectives.
I failed to do that for BlogWorld Expo. Looking back on BlogWorld Expo these are the three objectives I should have set for myself:
1. Meet Five New CEOs I Don’t Know
As the CEO of a startup – some of the best people for me to network with are other CEOs of startups. They are wonderful people to share knowledge and resources with, learn from, and cooperate with.
What I should have done was take a very close look at the list of exhibitors and figure out who the CEOs were for each of the companies. Then, I should have looked into their background, read their bios and prepared a list of questions and information on each CEO I wanted to meet.
I ran into Daniel Ha the founder and CEO of Disqus but I didn’t maximize my conversation with him. It would have been good to ask Daniel more about what his journey has been like in the last year since launching Disqus. Micah introduced me to the CEO, Todd Vernon of Lijit and again, I wasn’t prepared to make a good impression to start building some rapport.
2. Been Clear on What I Wanted to Learn
This is a no brainer. I really should have taken a closer look at the schedule of sessions before arriving to the conference and done some homework on who the presenters were that I didn’t know and been clear on what I wanted from each session.
I ended up attending too many sessions and not learning much. Had I done my homework a little better; I would have successfully leveraged my time in and out of the sessions.
Going the Extra Mile: If you are very session focused, you could start your blog posts before attending…getting the background on the presenters (or panels), the topics and then wrap up your blog post during or immediately after a session to include all the live twittering from the session.
3. Additional Contacts with Key Attendees
I was in a hurry to get to the bathroom after one of the sessions and coming out of the bathroom on his cellular phone was Guy Kawasaki. I knew he been a speaker on Friday but I hadn’t realized he would be there on Saturday. As soon as I saw him I said “Guy” and shook his hand. That’s it. I said his name, shook his hand and went on my way.
A few steps later I was thinking DOH! Ann, you didn’t even introduce yourself. When I came out of the bathroom I caught up with Geoff who introduced me to Brian Solis. They were both there for the book signing of Now is Gone. I shook Brian’s hand but again, I didn’t make my mark. I might have redeemed myself a little with Brian. I managed to get him to follow me back on Twitter so we’ll see (he has over 6,000 followers and follows only about 400 back). I do plan on building much better rapport with him over time.
An hour later, I was sitting outside when Adam Hirsch and Sharon Feder from Mashable came out and sat with me. We were chatting when Scoble came out. We all went to say hello. Again, I missed the opportunity to leave a good lasting impression. Two other people who were there were ready with a Flip to get Scoble on camera. I had my Flip in my purse but didn’t know what I would have wanted to ask him – on hindsight, I should have just recorded what the other two were recording. Obviously, my mind and ability to react were out for the day.
This all happened on Saturday. I didn’t have my A-game on Saturday because again, I hadn’t prepped myself. On Sunday, I arrived with my A-game and that made a huge difference but I wasn’t able to recoup my missed opportunities from the day before.
I should have prepared myself to meet the key attendees I didn’t already know. Once more, this would have involved knowing what I wanted to say to them and what type of conversation I wanted to engage them in.
Live and Learn
Piss poor planning equals piss poor execution. Yes, I’m an extremely busy person but having taken the time to plan and prepare myself would have resulted in having a higher yield on the investment of my time and money.
Hopefully my experience will help you so that you don’t have to pay the same price for the lesson.
What was I Doing at BlogWorld Expo??
Posted on September 22, 2008
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I believe I signed up for BlogWorld Expo back in early July; at the time, I had my set of reasons for wanting to attend…as a matter of fact, I registered with Yut Media, Inc. and not WhyGoSolo. I had anticipated that by the time I attended Blog World I would be heavily involved on the Yut Media Blog and be ready to take my stand and voice what I was aiming to accomplish with my blogging and social media platforms. That didn’t happen; I have one post from August 20th but I haven’t blogged there since. It’s the entrepreneurial thing – I got really busy with Tickets with a Twist.
On Saturday (first day of the conference for me) I found myself getting very aggravated. My time (and money) are extremely precious to me, so anytime I sense I’m wasting either one or that I could be doing something better I start to get frustrated. Four days of time off from the day job would have been huge if applied towards making progress on Tickets with a Twist.
The more I got frustrated and disappointed in how things were turning out, the more obvious it became that I needed to answer two questions for myself: “What am I doing at BlogWorld Expo?” and “What will make being here worth it?”
@Dayngr answered the question with “Why meeting all the great people of course!”
It was definitely my #1 reason for being there: make contacts, make contacts and make contacts. Problem is that just meeting people isn’t enough. It must be quality contacts that will bear fruits and be helpful towards what I’m working to achieve (although that might sound like a selfish statement – that’s all I have the time for.)
On Sunday, I attended a session called Entrepreneurship for Artists lead by Larry Chiang. As you can imagine the title was a huge attention gainer for me. On the panel were Pete Cashmore from Mashable and Bambi Francisco from Vator.tv – didn’t quite get why. The session ended up taking a turn that I didn’t expect but the saving grace were the few folks attending the session. One person in particular was Michael Paige. Michael is an Indie artist.
After the session, I had a few good conversations with Michael. It looks like Michael and I are going to be doing some work together that I believe will kick off what I’m imagining will generate what I’m looking for and assist Michael achieve his goals.
I met a few other good people at BlogWorld Expo, caught up with some folks I hadn’t seen in a while and learned a thing or two about SEO. However, I did not maximize my time or opportunities there. Read about what I could have done better and how that can help you prepare for the conferences you attend in my next post!
Kudos to American Airline: My Airline of Choice
Posted on September 22, 2008
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I’ve been flying almost every month for the last six months and I’ve been increasingly disappointed in every airlines. It was the first time I got on an American Airline flight in a long time this weekend to get to BlogWorld Expo and let me tell you – Very Satisfied Customer.
The drinks were actually free and they had blankets available (although, I have already started to bring my own). The stewardess were all very nice, courteous and helpful. The flights left on time and as a matter of fact, my last two flights today both came in early. My last flight came in 20 minutes early.
When I arrived to Reagan National, I made a quick stop in the bathroom and by the time I reached the luggage carousel the luggage was already going round and round.
Kudos to American Airline!! They are not my airline of choice.
Also, I booked my ticket through Orbitz.com and I loved receiving the OrbitzTLC Alerts that let me know my flight was on time, from what gate it was taking off and where to pick-up my luggage.
Opening up the Conversational Playing Field
Posted on September 2, 2008
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I have made the executive decision of renaming this blog to make it MY blog. Seems fitting to do so since my name is the domain name!!
I started this blog with the intent of better establishing my credibility as an entrepreneur – my branding. However, in the process of doing so, I lost my voice and the platform for me to just be myself and unload my thoughts.
Since I’m running three other blogs right now that are tied to a brand and serve the purpose of growing a startup or startups depending how you look at it; I’ve decided to reclaim this blog.
The title Incoming and Outgoing Thoughts is exactly what you’ll find here from now on. Expect it to return to more my style…the way I used to write here: www.whygosolo.blogspot.com.
Hello liberation!!
Entrepreneurial Success Resides in your People
Posted on September 1, 2008
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What a difference a year makes! Yesterday I was reading my journal and recollecting what was happening in my life a year ago. The biggest thing that was happening was my quest to raise money.
Oddly enough – that’s rapidly becoming my biggest quest again. I was working on the new investor deck yesterday and there was one huge glaring difference in the write-ups I was doing.
Last year, the money was needed mostly for development. We had a development team that was about to start development, but we had no product. Just a concept on paper.
This year, the seed round is needed to prove the concept in DC, VA and MD. The money is mostly for sales, marketing and PR.
Last year I was recruiting developers. This year I’m recruiting sales, marketing and PR people. It’s really awesome to actually have a product that’s ready to serve it’s intended purpose and make money.
I was unsuccessful last year raising money so ALL the development was done bootstrapping…and this time, although I think my odds are much greater to raise the seed round I need; I’m bracing and preparing to do all the marketing, sales and PR through a grass root approach. Even if we raise the money – a grass root approach will still be implemented.
A month or so ago Doug told me I’d have to “do my thing and get people to buy-in to my vision, again.” I sneered when he said that. I didn’t know if I had it in me to be able to do that again. Well, this last week has been completely rejuvenating!
I’ve been talking to a few marketing, sales and PR folks and I’m finding myself totally immersed back into the grand vision and plan. And just like I was blessed to find some amazing developers last year; I’m coming across some splendid marketing, sales and PR people right now.
Again, since we have a product now, when I talk to the marketing, sales and PR people the talk is about immediate action and implementation. Today, I’m brainstorming the initial marketing, sales and PR plan so I can properly assign tasks.
We’re picking up some entirely new momentum. I consider myself having been rather successful to date bootstrapping and taking on a grass root approach because of a strong vision, will to achieve, perseverance and hard work, oh and one other factor: Amazing People.
People are everything to the success of an organization. Most valuable resource = PEOPLE. That’s why I know that money or no money – we’re moving on the proof of concept.
Processing Of Information: The Entrepreneurial Filter
Posted on August 26, 2008
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I unfortunately don’t have a great deal of time to read a lot of…anything. But, I still scan headlines, read a few blogs, and magazines. I also listen to NPR on WAMU on my commute back and forth to work.
Everything I read and everything I listen to is processed through my entrepreneurial filter. The entrepreneurial filter is like having extensive situational awareness while always wearing business goggles. I constantly seek what opportunities exist within what I just learned? What piece of information is relevant and what will I be able to leverage?
Sometimes it’s obvious and sometimes it’s not until a certain new prospect appears that makes the information I once heard become relevant. Everything you hear and learn has some sort of impact on business – somehow. That’s why anyone serious about business stays abreast of local, national and world news and happenings across all fronts. (Keep a forest view interest while you focus on whatever sector of the forest, tree or branch you’re on)
I think one of the most critical aspects of absorbing all information with the entrepreneurial filter is developing a great ability to think outside the box. My recommendation to anyone who is trying to raise money is “think outside the box”. Be it in regards to where, how and who of the fund raising process.
Someone contacted me today who wanted a little bit of guidance on fund raising. I replied to his question in a way that I know is frustrating to read because it didn’t necessarily have any clear guidance. I was annoyed with my own answer, which had me brewing on proper and helpful guidance for him. I hadn’t put in my email the usual “think outside the box” comment so I put myself in his shoes. Although I have little knowledge of what he’s working on; I started to think outside the box. It didn’t take but about 45 seconds for me to come up with a possible avenue for him to look into. This avenue is paved by a few things I’ve seen in articles and been hearing about on the radio.
He thought it was a great possible way to go. It’s going to take a lot of additional brainstorming to pave the road but at least it’s a real option with potential.
If you’re an entrepreneur or a striving entrepreneur start developing your entrepreneurial filter. Play around with what you hear and read about; find the business implications and possibilities. You can train yourself to start thinking any way you want to!! It just happens that some ways of thinking are a lot more beneficial than others.
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